Song of Solomon You know I could not deal with surprise divorce and not address the sex issue. This is the hardest part for me as a Christian woman and. This subreddit is of women who receive or give surprise sex. Surprise sex is sex that occurs when it is not expected. You can think of it as going. Last week we were surprised there was a Swedish law against a man refusing to wear a condom after a woman asks him to, dubbed "sex by.